Modern society, high-level residence is bristly, residence of this kind of high level is designed, it is to use unit to close more type, , living facilities is all ready, each other noninterference, very the reception that gets people. But, this kind of unit closes type residence is only very close the balcony can make outdoors activity (and the stack on most balcony thing or miniascape) , very few as right as Zun Lin abandon contact, some lived a few years in a building, still do not make give a full name each other. These psychology that also meet a person and physiology bring a few undesirable reaction, affect to the child especially bigger.

Because inhabit unit for a long time to close,this is planted type residence, lack outdoors activity, lack human contact, lack motion, cause the symptom on psychology or physiology, call high-rise to be asked for integratedly.

The education before singleton female school age has not gotten some attention answering in our country, big, medium the city still is existing start going to a nursery the question with enter garden difficult, difficult. If in the home conditional, young father and mother must put his a beloved daughter in the home, govern on somebody\’s behalf by grandparent or grandfather mother. Such, it is the child is taught from what get over there parents little, in finite contact, parents satisfies corporeal requirement of the child blindly, think to have such ability only \” not let sb down \” the child; 2 be formed in the family distinctive \” old, small \” contact and lie between acting human relation. Quality of a lot of old people culture are not quite high, or the knowledge that lacks true education child, although capable education child, wait for a reason as a result of physical strength again, also be hard to finish this job. They should be adopted inevitably \” limitation \” certainly method, do not let the child \” be troubled by \” , do not let the child arrive outdoors go (actually him old people also arrives rarely outdoors) , do not let the child make friend. They \” be afraid that the child has an accident \” , \” the child has an accident do not have method to explain \” , would rather be in charge of some more severely so, also do not let the child go out \” adventure \” .

Such, the child is animaled farm at high-rise or house in, very few intercourse, horizon stricture, outside looking up at a window, still be high-rise, or sky, Bai Yun, the psychological growth with this undoubted meeting normal block up. Cannot see outside wide world, see the green grass greenery in nature lesser, brains is wooden, eyesight ebbs prematurely.

Special \” old, small \” human relation, lie between the psychological difference of acting person, cross much limitation, certainly, together with parents returns the pamper in the home, the result makes the child is formed gradually depend on psychology, affected the development of independent character. Time heals long, the mental hygiene issue that the child shows heals much, be like capricious, selfish, obstinate, fragile, cowardly, shrink back, self-abased, cowardly, nervous, depressed, angst. Of course, these problems are not to be mirrorred on body of a child entirely, the likelihood has one to plant or a few kinds of expression are highlighted quite.

Those who be worth to take seriously is, child high-rise asks for the child body that happens not completely in living high-rise integratedly to go up, certain the child in low layer building, bungalow also has happen. Old people is afraid that the child runs to the ave to produce risk, be afraid of go out ask for trouble, them severe severe ground closes in the home. Person is admittedly safe, the crisis appeared however on psychology and spirit.

To the countermeasure that alleged child high-rise asks for integratedly, best method or put the child from the solution in high-rise or enclosed house. Not be not to build tower of course, also not be to must reject to live high-rise, crucial question is:

? uses up all likelihoods to grow preschool education enterprise, let all children enter the child-care centre, nursery school, class before learning. Apparent, this is problem of a society, the addition that people often says teachs investment, also ought to increase the investment of preschool education.

? parents should use limited time, bring the child nature of National People\’s Congress, go to side of park, zoo, river, seaside, lakefront, make full use of on Sunday, holiday, mountain-climbing, to amuse oneself of pleasure ground place.

? makes the child wide make friend, contact child society, active thinking, encourage their illusion and query, widen eye shot.

? parents and old people cannot child of beyond the mark coddle, the requirement of materially cannot be satisfied blindly. Not be the child\’s requirement sometimes, however parents is overmuch \” bestow \” . Also should criticize appropriately to the child\’s mistake, education. Old people looks after children also is not not OK, but should leave the child a bit freedom, below the premise that assures safety, need not have restricted severe, want to allow to seek child play to neighbour home.